Her comments are rude and inappropriate for the workplace. NExt time she said it you can state simply," Thatnk you for your commentary" or say nothing at all and take your honeybun to your desk or elsewhere away from her/him. Many people are overweight, some of those are very sensitive about comments, others own it and dont let others belittle them for it.
I would not go to the mgmt about it, since it is not illegal for her to comment on food you are eating in public. She is not harassing you on race, gender, age, etc other things that are illegal. Not a problem for mgmt.
I personally like to walk away from people without giving them a look or comment, as that takes away their fuel and makes them feel small.
PLease try not to give her any fuel or comments. BEst of luck to you. Everyone has to deal with people like this at times. She probably has a sad life to be so rude to someone else. (even if outwardly she seems fine, there are things wrong in her life )
Oh would you grow up?!
There was NO need to waste your managers time by running to her over a petty personal squabble, what are we 5? I'm not defending your co-worker but its time to be an adult about this situation and either a) confront her about her behaviour or b) ignore her... but NEVER go running to your manager, its incredibly chilidish and a complete waste of his or her time.
Secondly you need to understand that this is the real world and there will be people that you don't like or don't like you, its just the way it is! You need to learn to be much more mature about how you chose to handle things! I can tell you at my work place I have people from time to time that bite my head off, I chose to realize that I couldn't care less about them as people and I just go about doing my job the best I can... you need to learn to do the same.
No it is not bullying..she made an observation that she could not eat the honeybun and that she goes to the gym. I assume that you have never mentioned that you did something over the weekend or been to a baseball or football game or some other event (which would insinuate your social life is better according to your interpretations).
I wouldn't eat any of a honeybun. I hate honey. How does the tastes of this person and myself imply that you are fat. We are just giving our opinion on honeybuns. It's not all about you.
If ANYONE makes you feel uncomfortable in the workplace,it should always be reported as harassment just ensure you know what your saying,they should have cameras anyway.Dont let anyone make you feel like your stupid,your their to work not be Judged by others. :) x
It is not bullying. You are just overly sensitive. Get over it.
tell her you are not interested in her opinions or just walk away from her when she approaches you
