I would classify catty as being over petty stuff that doesn't really matter. But, not washing your hands can have consequences for others. If you don't wash your hands, you are spreading God-knows what kind of germs to everyone else, on door knobs, the copy machine, etc. It's not unreasonable to expect co-workers to wash their hands after using the bathroom, no matter the work environment. You are putting other people at risk by not washing your hands. Could you just do that one little thing?

I work in an office and someone said I didn't wash my hands after using the toilet. OK, I think I did and someone's just being catty, but even if I didn't... first, there are antiseptic handwipes at my desk, and second, it's not food service and there is no sign in the bathroom about hand washing.

So then why did two managers feel it was important to talk to me about this? And they didn't tell me who it was either, how freaky is this? Am I being mobbed or something? I've never heard of such a thing in an office setting.