My Wife and I have been together for 15 years. We started working different shifts for our kids so that they would not be alone. As a result we're like two ships passing in the night. As of late she has been agitated with everything I say or do. I'm not sure if it's because of her work schedule, me or because she might better interested in someone else. FYI we used to fantasize about introducing another man into our relationship but it was all fantasy and never became a reality. About four months ago she started a new diet and has been slimming down looking very good. She also has gone out and bought some new sexy bras and panties and revealing tops. On several occasions when I've called her at work to let her know how the kids are doing she seems happier there than at home. It seems more so when one of her coworkers is there. He is 15 years her junior a very good looking guy whom she says is G.Q.quality. All I ever hear about is him or some other good looking guy who has come into her workplace. I'm not a jealous husband when she talks about other men and when we fantasized in the past, I'll admit it kind of turned me on but in fantasy only. The other day after she got home from work she began to say things like we're not intimate anymore and just strangers and our marriage was in trouble. When i stopped the other night at her work I came across her male coworker who would hardly look me in the eye when I was talking to him. I'm wondering is my Wife maybe seeing him?

Your instincts are telling you something is off. It may be an affair, or it may be simple boredom and disaffection on her part. Maybe this young guy at work flirts with her and it is exciting. Regardless, affair or not, your marriage is suffering and you need to proactively deal with it. By your own admission, she has told you as much. She is already preparing you for the fact that it may end soon, especially if you don't deal with the problems.

You need to find out what is actually going on, whether that requires hiring a PI or not. You also need to talk with her, but not about your suspicions of cheating. At least not immediately. Find out what she meant by the things she said. What does she feeling is lacking in your relationship? Even if she is not currently engaged in an affair, it seems to be heading that way, and almost all affairs result from the fact that the new partner fills an emotional void that the old partner is not filling. You said it yourself, you are ships in the night. You have to ask yourself, are you still behaving like a married couple or just roommates?

If your wife was getting something on the side she would be super relaxed at home and not agitated with you. Maybe being agitated with you, maybe you're not there for her, is what the problem is. If she just bought some sexy items then she's "thinking of" cheating. Get to the bottom of this, yes her bottom, and treat her good before she does something regrettable. Yeah, the co-worker has been listening to your wife vent and that's why they won't look at you, they don't want to get involved.

"a happy wife is a happy life"

It's more typically the husband who gets in shape and starts going out.

You can cross that line of trust and hire a detective to follow her expensive) or maybe slip a tracking program onto her phone so your an see her GPS location.

If you anticipate having to divorce in the event if infidelity that detective might pay off.

If she is seeing someone, she would not speak to you about him. Is there a particular guy that she never mentions? I have the gut feeling you are correct, the new fancy under wear is a dead giveaway. You need to do a little detective work on your own.

Then start seeing another woman. Its a dog eat dog world.

Of course she is.!!!.., Get all your money out of everywhere you have an Acct.,,( She ll take it all ) ,Start filling out a Restraining Order..( Get your s first ).... Go to C.S.D. and start getting custody of the kids..( Or you might not see your kids again ), And hide anything that you don t want broken,,, ( Because". **** is about ready to hit the fan..) JUST SAYING...................

Get mobistealth and install it on her phone...youll find out quickly what is going on...

yes she is most likely cheating on you

Suppose you ask her?